- Habit 1: Be proactive - choice
the power to choose
"can do" attitued
"I decide to..." not "I have to..."
repond by principle not emotion
- Habit 2: Begin with the end in mind - vision
live by design not by default
develop a personal mission statement - values, principles, talents, roles, responsibilities
Templeate:
The things that matter most to me are:
The principles I will use to guide my life are:
I will make a contribution and enjoy life by using my talents of:
I will live with purpose in the following roles:
As a [role], I will [responsibility]
create a work-back plan from the vision
- Habit 3: Put first things first - priority with integrity
schedule your priorities, not prioritize your schedule
focus on top priorities
urgent vs important
do more planning
- Habit 4: Think win-win - mutual benefit attitude
win-win or no deal
emotional bank account - deposit:
seek first to understand
show kindness, courtesy, respect
keep promise
be loyal to the absent
set clear expections
apologize
give feedback
forgive
- Habit 5: Seek first to understand, then to be understood - active listening skill
"talking stick" - speaker seeks to be understood before passing it to another person
empathic listening - reflecting what a person feels and says in your own words, avoid advising, counselling, solving, probing, questioning, interpreting, evaluating, judging, disagreeing or agreeing
- Habit 6: Synergize - 1+1>2
Begin with common goal/purpose before discussing different viewpoints
- Habit 7: Sharpen the saw - renewal, balanced self-satisfaction in body, heart, mind and soul
Regain "production capability" by engaging in carefully selected recreational activities
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